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This Message Is for Muslims: Please, Do Better
﷽ ☺︎ Can humans fairly compensate other humans for the work they do? No. Absolutely not. God knows that the answer to that question is a hard no. So… why do we pretend like the world has to offer only a certain amount to certain people, and to others, apparently the world’s weight in gold…
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On the Usefulness of Consistent Output, the Perceptible Metrics of Success, and Living with Ihsan & Sincerity for Allah
﷽ ☺︎ Here we go again. I’m getting the stare-at-your-blank-document scaries again. I don’t know if I have anything useful to share today. Which makes me wonder: how do people consistently put out new work online? I don’t just mean essays, but videos, and podcasts, and other stuff as well. I know some creators who…
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On Being Perceived, the Embarrassing Feeling of Being Human, & r/MuslimGirlWriter
﷽ ☺︎ I hate putting myself out there. Not only is it petrifying to do, I find it also quite annoying and cringey. Nevertheless, this is something that must be done, unfortunately. To live is to be seen, or so the great mike wizowski said. UUUUGGGGHHHHHH!!!! I’m so annoyed by the fact that I have…
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On Perfectionism, Shirking Help from Others, & My Fake Fear of People
﷽ ☺︎ When did my worrying of how others perceive me start? In high school? Maybe even before that? I’m not exactly sure when this anxiousness started. I’m trying to remember if this trait of mine developed early on in life, or if it happened later in my adolescence. Either way, it’s here. It’s here…
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On Living Proactively, Allah as the Source, & Thoughts on Work
﷽ ☺︎ I sometimes wonder how life would’ve turned out for me if I made one small change/decision early on. What if I didn’t do that when I was younger? What if I did that instead? Would I be a totally different person, or would I end up being the person I am now? I…
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On Food Addiction, Internet Habits, & Jannah To-Do List
﷽ ☺︎ I have an unhealthy obsession with food. I wake up and the first thing I think about is what I’m going to eat for breakfast, lunch, and dinner. Even after I finish eating my excessive meals, I think about what kinds of snacks are available in the house and where they are. Oh…
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On Pessimism, Human Worth, & Learning through Adversity
﷽ ☺︎ I hate looking back and reminiscing over the past… mostly because there aren’t that many good memories. What’s amplified in my head is the bad stuff. I don’t think I’m alone in thinking this way. Whatever I remember about my past is not that good. Many people tend to think about the bad stuff. People…
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You Already Have the Answer to Your Problems, You’re Just Afraid of Letting Go
﷽ ☺︎ There are people in this world who are stuck in the past. I know that to be true because I currently happen to be one of those people. Someone maybe said something nasty to you one time, and you never got over it. When I’m alone and I’m not occupied with my phone…
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On Consistency, Commitment Issues, & Finding the Perfect Fit
﷽ ☺︎ I have this fear of sticking to one thing. I feel like if I stay in one place for too long or get comfortable with something, I’ll miss out on a lot of what’s out there. I think the root cause my inconsistency is my having this irrational fear of feeling caged in…
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First Post
﷽ ☺︎ Welcome to the You Are Not Here For You blog! You’re probably thinking, “Wow! what a weird name for a blog.” Well, I don’t care. I kinda like it. I decided to make a Pinterest to share my short stories and get the word out that I’ve published a book, and then came the “type in…